Mistaking Our Identity

We all love to discover something that truly worksthe tool for its function. Instead of a tool that offers
for us. A career that offers a deep level ofus great joy, our music becomes the joy itself.
fulfillment, a hobby that shifts our perspective, or aInstead of offering us a sense of accomplishment,
spiritual practice that leads us into new aspects ofbeing a lawyer becomes the accomplishment in itself.
consciousness - all of these offer us a means ofAnd so we serve the tool.
expansion and growth. Sometimes we find justQuite frequently, we stop questioning whether the
exactly what we need in our lives, a new tooltool even still serves us. Now that we've made the
through which we create greater balance, health, andcareer, the hobby, the spiritual practice, an integrated
happiness.part of our identity, we are reluctant to question
The problem arises when we allow the solution, thewhether it still fulfills its original purpose for being in
tool that is working for us, to define us. Let's say weour lives. We keep doing what we've been doing,
begin a yoga practice, which cures the chronic backbecause we think that this is who we are.
pain we've been experiencing for years. We goAll the things we do in our lives, our occupations and
around preaching to anyone who will listen about thehobbies and practices, are simply tools through which
joys and benefits of yoga. We go to class regularly,we express ourselves, expand ourselves, discover
we start chanting kirtan, we buy some cute yogaourselves. They are not who we are. It stands to
outfits and our very own yoga props. Which is all wellreason that we should take inventory from time to
and good. We've all been there.time: "Is this tool still serving me as the most
But now we go further. We get bent out of shape ifappropriate expression of who I am today?" Maybe
we can't attend our regular class. Our favoritethe tool is still working beautifully. Maybe it needs a
teacher leaves our studio, and we feel devastated.little tweaking. Maybe it needs to find a permanent
Everything revolves around yoga, around thishome in the back of the tool shed, to be dusted off
practice. And, very quietly and slowly, we've elevatedonly occasionally.
a tool to the position of master. The yoga that wasTake a truly honest inventory of your toolbox!
meant to serve us has become the altar at whichAcknowledge that everything there once served you
we worship. Instead of a means to an end, it hasbeautifully, and should be honored as such. Shedding
become an end unto itself.some of those old tools may leave you feeling
We do this all the time - we find what works, andlighter, less burdened, and open to new solutions,
make it a part of our identity. We become a healer,new tools that may serve you in the perfect
a painter, a business owner, a writer, a runner, aexpression of who you are right now.
musician, a lawyer, a yogi, a meditator. We substitute